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For anyone carrying the shame of the 'child exploitation' label: you didn't do anything wrong

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I see a new post about this almost every day so I wanted to write something. Last year my account was disabled with that label. I'm a childminder in the north of England. I didn't sleep properly for weeks. I honestly thought the police might turn up. I didn't tell anyone because I was scared they'd think 'no smoke without fire'. What I wish someone had told me then: - There are so many of us. Teachers, parents, photographers, people who have never posted a child at all. I really don't believe a human looked at most of these. - An app disabling you is not an accusation by a person, and it's not a criminal record. - Telling a couple of trusted people made it so much lighter. Every one of them believed me straight away. - It's okay to step away from the app completely while you wait. Mine came back after 4 months. I barely use it now and honestly I'm fine. If you're in the middle of it right now, be gentle with yourself.
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  1. I needed this today. Day 9 for me. Thank you.
  2. Saved this. My wife is going through it right now and she's mortified, I'll show her.
  3. @Carl sending her a hug from me (I wrote the post). Tell her she's in good company, sadly.

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